We usually and as usual complain about not receiving, we do so as we won’t give away. Then we complain about others taking (or trying to take) from us, while we try to get something from them. The prisoner’s dilemma! To solve it, just cease to be (in) your prison. It all boils down to the mystery of incarnation:  as soon as we step in the universe, we feel (and have) a void inside… Impossible to fill (actually by default), we can’t stop trying over and over, not realizing that only when one accepts the void as IT IS, one realizes oneself as I AM . Only then, only there, only like that, there is no need to fill anymore and peace simply emerges (because it had always been there).